Liam Scott Elmer - Online Memorial Website

WHEN A LOVED ONE DIES

Have you lost a loved one in death? The pain, the grief, and the feelings of helplessness can seem unbearable. At such times, we need to go to God’s Word for comfort. (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4) The Bible helps us to understand how Jehovah and Jesus feel about death. Jesus, who perfectly reflected his Father, knew the pain of losing someone in death. (John 14:9) When he was in Jerusalem, Jesus used to visit Lazarus and his sisters, Mary and Martha, who lived in the nearby town of Bethany. They became close friends. The Bible says: “Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.” (John 11:5) As we learned in the preceding chapter, though, Lazarus died.

How did Jesus feel about losing his friend? The account tells us that Jesus joined Lazarus’ relatives and friends as they grieved over this loss. Seeing them, Jesus was deeply moved. He “groaned in the spirit and became troubled.” Then, the account says, “Jesus gave way to tears.” (John 11:33, 35) Did Jesus’ grief mean that he had no hope? Not at all. In fact, Jesus knew that something wonderful was about to happen. (John 11:3, 4) Still, he felt the pain and sorrow that death brings.

In a way, Jesus’ grief is encouraging to us. It teaches us that Jesus and his Father, Jehovah, hate death. But Jehovah God is able to fight and overcome that enemy! Let us see what God enabled Jesus to do.

For more reference about this wonderful hope you can visit www.watchtower.org 

This website is a great idea and I hope it will help to ease some of the pain. I am praying for you Hillary and I haven't stopped doing so since the day this tragedy happened. Everytime I drive by the apartments I think about you and I miss you. Call me if you need anything. I love you guys.

Hillary,

I can't imagine how what you are going through. But I want you to know that you are not alone. Baby Liam was taken away far too soon, but his memory will last forever..he will always be in our hearts and in our thoughts. You and your family are continuosly in my thoughts and prayers. I pray the lord continues to give you strength.I am always here for you sweetie.

I can't say that I understand what you are going through Hillary, because I don't, but I can say that I am here for you always.  I think and pray for you constantly.  You are so strong and such an inspiration to so many people.  Hang in there sweetie!  Loads of love and big huge hugs are being sent to you and Jayden.

I don't want to say that I know what you are going through right now, because I don't, I can't imagine what you are going through, my heart aches with yours though and you have been on my mind non-stop. All i can give you right now is that you know I am here, along with the group for support, ALWAYS, and if you ever make it here to texas to visit or get away, I am here for you. Liam is watching his mommy and he knows one day you and him will together again. We love u hill I want you to know that.

 

Renee

Hillary, I just want to let you know that you are always on my mind. I don't there there has been a day that went by that I haven't thought about you, Jayden, & Liam. It breaks my heart to know that he had to leave this world so soon. He was such a gorgeous little boy with one of the best mothers I have ever met. At least I know he was nothing but happy when he was here on earth. I know you showered him with love, and I don't think he could have ever asked for more. I still can't believe this has happend to you. You of all people. I remember when I was pregnant, if something was wrong with Michael and I, you were the one I would talk to. You went through almost the same thing... You were such a great friend and I would have never imagined this to happen. I never got to meet the little one... I wish I made it to see him sooner. I am so sorry Hillary. If you need anything at all, just let me know. I won't question it, I won't even blink, it will be done. So, even if its something small... You can always call me. Layla and I love you guys so much. You are in our thoughts and prayers every single day. Stay strong Hillary. I know you can. You are one of the strongest people I have ever met.

I want to offer you my deepest condolences on the loss of your beautiful son. There is no greater pain than the loss of a child. My nephew was born an angel last november, and his middle name was Liam.  I am sure that you cherished each and every day that your little angel was with you, and moving on without him is agony. May each day that passes ease your pain a little bit, and may you eventually be able to find peace. You are in my prayers.